All posts by Liza Fryman

Why Women Can’t Have it All Article

Anne-Marie Slaughter has job in DC, son and husband live in Princeton

Decided to return home to family and leave gov’t job—still has full time job as professor at Princeton

2 reactions from other women: disappointed and condescending

Women from her generation have held on to the feminist beliefs raised with b/c are determined not to drop the ball for the next generation—different reaction than younger generation

Believes women can still “have it all” but just not today with America’s economy and society

Crazy long days in DC working for Clinton, equivalent of one vacation day a month

Having it all meant what kind of job she had

Other females high in gov’t over past years have also stepped down to be with family

In Washington, “leaving to spend time with your family” is a euphemism for being fired

“Although women as a group have made substantial gains in wages, educational attainment, and prestige over the past three decades, the economists Justin Wolfers and Betsey Stevenson have shown that women are less happy today than their predecessors were in 1972, both in absolute terms and relative to men” (5)

Best hope and closing that “new gender gap” is to close leadership gap: elect a woman president and 50 women senators—ensure women are equally represented in the ranks of corporate executives and judicial leaders

Cliches:

it’s possible if you are just committed enough

very few women in leadership positions—pool of female candidates for any top job is small, and will only grown smaller

every male supreme court justice has a family; 2 of 3 female justices are single with no children, Ruth Bader Ginsburg began career as judge when child was almost grown

It’s possible if you marry the right person

men seem more likely to choose their job at a cost to their family and women vice versa

It’s possible if you sequence it right

People tend to marry later now—but if have children earlier may be more difficult to get graduate degree, good first job, and opportunities for advancement in crucial early years of your career

Also less income while raising children and then can’t hire help

Being able to work from home can be the key to carrying full load vs letting a team down at crucial moments (11)

“According to the Women’s Business Center, 61% of women business owners use technology to ‘integrate the responsibilities of work and home’” (11)

Comparison to marathon runner—discipline, organization, and endurance it takes to succeed at top levels with young children at home is comparable to running 20 to 40 miles a week but rarely how employers see things

Comparison to Orthodox Jew taking off Friday afternoon and Saturday

Redefining the arc of a successful career

Makes sense for women to peak in late 50s and early 60s

Female role model: Michelle Obama

“When the choice is whether to hire a man who will work whenever and wherever needed, or a woman who needs more flexibility, choosing the man will add more value to the company

the more often people with different perspectives come together, the more likely creative ideas are to emerge

“If women are ever to achieve real equality as leaders, then we have to stop accepting male behavior and male choices as the default and the ideal” (20)

May need to put a woman in the White House before we’re able to change the conditions of women working at Wal Mart

Possible Questions:

Do you think the only solution is electing a woman as President?

Are there any movies that have a strong female lead in a position of power where she is not seen as the antagonist?

Working Women

Something that has been somewhat bothering me that we haven’t really touched upon in class is the fact that both women in Blonde Venus and Klute did have questionable jobs, however, these women had these jobs in order to make a living.  Ok, yes, women should probably not resort to showing off their body to make money, but it can be very challenging to make money, especially as a woman.

In Blonde Venus, Helen’s initial motivation for returning to the stage is so she can help out her husband.  Back in the 30s, it was very rare for women to have jobs and earn money, so the fact that she is willing to try to help out her husband so he can get better makes me want to give her serious props.   She is willing to do whatever it takes in order to assist her husband and although she is doing so by burlesque dancing, I commend her on her attempt.

Bree is very similar to Helen in this aspect in Klute.  She is a struggling actress living in Manhattan, one of the hardest cities to “make it,” so she has to resort to being a call girl in order to earn money.  She probably doesn’t take pride in being a prostitute, however, it is the one job that she knows she will succeed in and won’t get rejected.  It is objectifying to women to resort to this sort of job, but sometimes a girl’s gotta do what a girl’s gotta do.  Now I don’t want people to think I am condoning being a prostitute! Absolutely not! But I do think that people should take a second to recognize the fact that both these women, are struggling, and want to do whatever it takes to make it through life.